Last week I published the findings of an independent survey I conducted to reveal the most common mistakes managers make as reported by their employees.
While there was little surprise overall (micromanaging was the No. 1 “mistake” on the list of responses), some expressed disdain over managers unfit to lead, and blamed the hiring decisions of those up the chain who place people in management roles.
That’s entirely fair. Bad leadership behaviors that start north always travel south, spreading into mediocre leadership cultures. Gallup CEO Jim Clifton said it best:
“The single biggest decision you make in your job–bigger than all the rest–is who you name manager. When you name the wrong person manager, nothing fixes that bad decision. Not compensation, not benefits–nothing.”
You’ve heard this Top 40 hit before: People leave managers, not companies.
So what’s the solution?
It’s pretty simple, actually. Most companies promote workers into leadership positions because they seemingly deserve it or earned it, rather than have the talent for it. This practice doesn’t work.
If you’re about top promote someone on experience, technical and other hard skills alone, that won’t cut it. While those are certainly important reasons, people’s right-brain talents — the naturally recurring patterns in the ways they think, feel, intuit, and behave — predict where they’ll perform at their best.
The need for soft-skills leadership development has never been more obvious in this relationship economy, especially for candidates considering making the jump into management for the first time.
In this Harvard Business Review article, Dr. Jim Mitchell, who retired as vice president at Oracle Laboratories, tells columnist and executive coach Anna Ranieri that he made the leap from an engineering position up to management by displaying the people skills that got him there, including empathy and self-knowledge (self-awareness), which he attributes as the most important characteristics for his own success.
So what are the leadership traits new managers must have?
1. Leaders will succeed if they display authenticity:
By being learners.
By being willing to be transparent and being known.
By being self aware — understanding themselves and others.
By being open to input from others, even those below them.
By maintaining integrity, honesty, consistency, and ethical behavior.
2. Leaders will succeed if they value their people:
By believing and trusting in people.
By maintaining a high view of people, and showing respect and dignity.
By putting others first before self.
By listening — receptive, nonjudgmental listening.
3. Leaders will succeed if they develop people:
By providing for learning and growth.
By developing potential.
By modeling their own development.
By encouraging their own people.
4. Leaders will succeed if they provide leadership:
By envisioning the future for the whole team.
By using intuition and foresight to direct the organization.
By taking initiative and moving out ahead.
By clarifying goals and expectations, and understanding what it will take to get to the vision.
5. Leaders will succeed if they share leadership:
By sharing power and empowering others.
By sharing status in relation to position, honor, and self-promotion.
By using persuasion to influence others instead of coercion.
By pushing authority down.
6. Leaders will succeed if they build community:
By enhancing relationships and relating well to others.
By promoting a sense of belonging and connection for all team members.
By working collaboratively, emphasizing teamwork.
By valuing the differences of others — differing gifts, cultures, personalities, and viewpoints.
Call to action.
While the formula for leadership success has been laid out, the competitive edge goes to those committed to continuous learning and development.
But beware of “leadership training,” as it is rarely, if ever, effective. These behaviors can only be permanently ingrained if new neural pathways in the brain are created through long-term coaching, mentoring, and developing leaders.
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